NYEBoy left with the car this morning. He didn't know I was going to meet my dad and K with the baby for a visitation. It wasn't court ordered or scheduled, just mutually agreed upon. Well, when I woke up and he was gone, I had to tell K that I was trying to get a hold of him and I would call her back.
What do they do? Do they wait patiently and realize it's a miscommunication? an accident? No.
They fucking call and complain to the lawyer telling them I am trying to prevent them from seeing the baby on purpose. Are you fucking KIDDING ME?
This is bullshit. It's a fucking game to my dad. I called my sister back and said "WTH? Why are the lawyers involved? I told you I would call you back as soon as he called me" and I heard my dad say "Yeah I called the lawyers"
Fuck you. It's not about the fucking kid. It's just a GAME. And it's sick.
I'm trying to think positively, but it's so hard.
One more day, one more day.
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Thinking of you
{{{Hugs}}} honey. I'm sorry he is being such a child about this all.
I am so sorry you are going through this. I follow your battle on and off. I wish it was as clear to the court as it is to me what the right thing for the CHILD is. We (my family, as we are all involved and love these kids more than anything) are fighting the corrupt system for custody of my niece and nephew. It will have been a year of terror by the time the final (supposedly) court date comes. They could be sent to live with their abusive father in another country for 4y. Each court date and mediation is thick with the implications. It is beyond any emotion I have ever felt.
You are trying to save her life, help her have a childhood, stability, love. I don't see how lawyers can be paid enough to side with the ones who use her as a pawn, something they don't care enough about to do the right thing. It is so baffling and so WRONG. My heart breaks for you and A. Oh, my GOD, I pray it goes well tomorrow morning. I cannot help but think of you every time I see my niece and nephew and know your struggle has been in my prayers so often. I am so, so sorry you are going through this.
praying so hard for you.
Best of luck. I hope the judge makes the right decision for A tomorrow.
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