Thursday, February 3

All We Could

We did all we could, but in the end, it wasn't enough.

She goes back to K next Saturday.

The judge said, had this been a divorce case, we would have won hands down.

40 comments:

Amber said...

DANGIT!!!!! I'm so sorry. :(

motherof5boys1girl said...

im so sorry!
does she go this coming saturday, or the one after this one?
:(

Vanessamae said...

I'm so sorry.

Krystal said...

Sorry to hear. Do not see how the judge think it's appropriate to give the child back into a situation that a child should ever be in. Hope your sister gets her act together. Hope she's learned from this to become a better person.

adjunctmom said...

So biology trumps good sense. That's so very sad for A and for you and NYEboy. I'm so, so sorry for all of you.

Admin said...

omg I am so so sorry. You really did give it all you could! I'm sending you a cyberhug and lots of positive thoughts...

Soapchick said...

I'm so sorry. I hope you will be able and allowed to stay in A's life.

cysteract said...

Nooo! I'm just gutted for all of you. Holding you all in my thoughts. :(

Bec said...

So sorry to hear this news. Hang in there. :(

nothingwitty.com said...

I am so sorry.
I am just so sorry.

Zookeeper Jess said...

OMG. I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say. I don't know how this could be :(

My heart hurts for you :( I can't imagine having to give my nieces back. OMG :(

OptimistK said...

Words just seem to escape me - all I can say is that I am very sorry. Especially for A.

Carolyn said...

Sending hugs and good thoughts your way (I'm not sure what else to say or do, I'm so sorry for your pain).

Nikke said...

Omigosh! I am so sorry =[ ='[

Adam and Julia said...

i am so sorry. you are in my thoughts

kate said...

I'm so sorry. I hope your sister does right by her.

Delenn said...

I am so very sorry!! I know it will be hard for you and A the next few days/weeks/months.

Michele said...

I'm so sorry. I know that this is crushing you and I wish there was something more we could say or do to make this better. That could only be accomplished with A staying... I know. I'm so very sorry.

A will always know how much you fought for her and how much you love her. Keep being that person, as much as you can, and she will always know she has a place to go back to... Big hugs.

somewhataloof said...

This saddens me to the core. The comment from the judge floors me.

Katie said...

I'm disgusted. I'm so sorry. This makes me literally nauseous.

Jodi said...

Oh my word. I'm so very, very sorry. Make sure that someone nearby is reporting any iffy behavior to the local CPS. Someone needs to keep an eye on her. And she needs to know that CPS is watching her...

Isabel said...

She'll be back with you, I know it.

Samantha said...

I am so sorry to hear that. I really, truly hope you will be able and allowed to stay in A's life.

Cindy said...

I'm stunned. I am so very sorry.

Kymberli said...

My heart hurts so deeply for you. (((hugs)))

Jenn said...

awww crap... I'm so so sorry. My heart is breaking for you all.

Rachel said...

I'm so sorry. I've been where you are. Stay present and connected with her. She will rely on you even from far away.

Searching said...

&(*#!!! I am so, so sorry! I know you are devastated. I don't know how that judge can sleep at night. I am so upset for all three of you. :*(

Hekateris said...

Oh, I'm so sorry. It's just not right.

Robbie said...

I am so sorry for you guys! That is just not right... however, on the good side, if there is one, is that she is now old enough to remember that she loves you and you love her and that you took care of her and when things get bad at your sisters house, she will most likely look at K and say " I want to go back to Due Time's house". That will speak volumes as to what you guys did for her and what you mean to each other. I pray you can find some peace through all this.

Alex said...

I'm sorry it didn't go your way. Sending healing vibes your way.

Rachel said...

Damn it man! So sorry... but hopefully it will only be a short departure! :/

K said...

I am really, really sorry to hear that. Thinking of all of you.

Dora said...

Oh, no! This is just insane. I'm so sorry. For you and for A.

Kim said...

I'm so sorry.

Renae said...

So very, very sorry to read this. Praying she is back with you soon.

Jem said...

Nooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How often will you be able to see her? What's your plan to be part of her life?

tdarwish said...

I am sorry to hear this. My heart hurts for you.

Kristin said...

Oh honey...I am so, so sorry. {{{Hugs}}}

Jendeis said...

I'm so sorry. This just sucks.