Help! I need advice.
The outcome of the custody case could go one of three ways.
A) We win.
B) We lose and A has to be returned immediately.
C) We lose and A has to be returned at the end of the school year (May).
Because there is a chance we may have to give her back right away, I am seriously debating on asking my professors if I can take off next Monday and Wednesday. I had planned on coming on Friday if I wasn't too distraught (if we lose). I don't have classes on Tuesdays or Thursday.
If we lose and she goes now, spending those few days will mean more to me than any lecture at school. If we win or lose and she goes later, it will put me behind significantly and I will have missed several tests and important lectures.
Provided they ALL agree that I can take the time off, would you do it? Would you risk getting behind (A LOT--not a little!) to capture those extra memories that you will never be able to get back?
Which will I regret more? Bad grades or not getting that extra time with her?
That is the question...