We've been planning for a few days to confront K about everything. This afternoon, I scrambled arond at the last minute to find someone to watch A because I got the uneasy feeling and I didn't want K running away with A if she got upset enough.
After dropping A off, we came back to the house to talk to K. When we got back home, we noticed K's friend was there and out front door was open. Of course, as soon as they see us, her friend comes out and gets in her car. I told K to hang on a moment because we needed to talk. She didn't really want to, but told her friend to hang on.
We tried to talk to her, but she kept interrupting my Mom saying "Get to the point!", "What are you trying to say?". Finally my mom said "Here are some copies of the proof that we have that you are into drugs.. As she said that, I handed K the copies. She FLIPPED!
She started yelling and screaming. She told NYEBoy she was going to kill him. It was CRAZY. I finally got her outside and away from NYEBoy because I was worried she was going to hit him because she has no sense.
K was screaming in the parking lot saying she hates this place. She said "Yeah, I fucking smoke? Who the fuck cares! I'm grown!" Then she said "I'm fucking leaving! I'm taking my fucking baby and I am leaving tomorrow! FUCK THIS SHIT!"
I finaly calmed her down enough and told her to leave with her friend. Thank GOD A wasn't there. It was not something a child should see. I ended up leaving as soon as she left to try to talk to see what the police would say about her leaving.
I'll be going in front of a judge tomorrow morning to plea my case. My family is behind me 100%. Well, except my dad. I'll blog about that later.
I ended up calling K after I left the police station. I convinced her to let me come see her when her friend goes to work at 11. It's just going to be her and I. I'm going to be straight with her. If she doesn't sign tomorrow, in the morning, we will be filing with the courts. The police said a judge can order her to be taken in for an evaluation and the sheriff will be the ones to pick her up.
I'm devastated. If she leaves with the baby, I will be crushed. I don't want to get the law involved. If she wants to get fucked up, FINE. But right now, she can't make proper decisions for the baby, period.
Keep us in your prayers. I've never shaken so bad in my life. I almost threw up talking to the police. I couldn't call anyone without bawling.
This is the right thing to do. If she wasn't so guilty of everything, she wouldn't have freaked out so bad. She knows she's in the wrong and she's scared.
God, if you're listening, please help us.
6 comments:
Oh man, I am glad you listened to your gut and got A out of there. Lots of {{{hugs}}} and prayers for tomorrow.
Sending you TONS of prayers and love! I'm ALWAYS here for you. I may not have the right words to say, but I'm here for you.
*HUGS*
I'm so sorry. Oh how we're so similar.
I gained guardianship of my 2 nieces (and have 2 of my own) 6 months ago due to abuse and drugs. I have 4 kids under 4 now and my sister still doesn't have her life on track.
I hope and pray the courts are on your side and do the right thing.
*hugs*
In church this evening we talked about stress and how to deal with it.
They said that we should all deal with stress together as a whole and lift those around us up in prayer.
I prayed really hard for you and your family.
I know God is listening to us. He will fix this and make it right. I have faith.
Until then, huge hugs and more prayers for you guys.
This sounds like the hardest thing anyone has had to do. I am sorry you have to deal w/ K's nonsense and deliver an ultimatum like that to her.
You are absolutely doing the right thing. My prayers are with you today.
You are absolutely doing the right thing. Hang in there.
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