Monday, August 24

Healthcare, Shemelthcare

Wednesday, my Uncle G was in a car wreck. He declined to go to the hospital, in part because he didn't want to have to worry about a hospital bill even though he had health insurance and worked full time as a truck driver. Over the course of the next 36 hours, my Uncle G was in a lot of pain. His sister told him he really needed to go to the hospital. With his back and abdomen hurting more and more as the hours passed, he finally decided to go. He told his sister he needed to get dressed first. About that time, his abdomen began to swell. He looked at his sister and said, "Don't be mad at me." As he got up to get ready, blood poured from his nose and mouth, his knees buckled, and he fell to the ground. His sister ran to call 911. My Uncle G starred at her husband as he died by choking on his own blood.

Friday, my father called me to tell me he had passed out a few times while doing landscaping, but was home now and taking it easy. About 30 minutes later, he called me to tell me he wasn't feeling very well, and wanted to know if it was okay if he passed out as long as he was laying in his bed. I firmly told him to go unlock the door and call 911. My father called me from his hospital room Sunday to ask me if I had heard back from the financial aid for my sister since shes starting college. Instead of relaxing and getting the medical help he needs, he's worry about being able to pay for his two day stay in the hospital, even though he's insured.

Why should we care about Healthcare Reform? We should care because the health care industry shouldn't be a for-profit industry. It's a conflict of interest. There shouldn't be someone sitting in a cubicle deciding who is worthy and who is not, based on how many Doritos they've had in their lifetime or how lucky they were in the gene pool. Health care shouldn't only be for the very rich, very poor, seniors, children, military, or government. It's a human right. It should be for everyone.

Not only is it a human right, but it should be affordable. Although there may be nearly 50 million uninsured Americans, there are many Americans who have health insurance, but are afraid about how big their bill will be if they use it. If you're worthy of getting health insurance, they rape you with the premiums even before you step foot into a doctor's office. What good is health insurance if you have to decide between paying your mortgage, sending your kid to college, or taking the risk of dying?

Today, my Uncle's cold dead body will be placed into the ground and my father will wake up early to go landscape again because he knows the hospital bill will be in the mailbox before the end of the week and his daughter's tuition bill won't be far behind. For all of you who are out there protesting the Healthcare Reform or don't care about the right to affordable health care, please go to sleep tonight with the image of my uncle choking on his blood as he died because he was worried about a hospital bill. I hope all of the chanting and childish screaming in the townhall meetings are worth it because my family sure doesn't think 51 years was long enough with him in our lives.

16 comments:

luna said...

so sorry about your uncle. how tragic.

Nikke said...

Sorry to hear about your uncle.
I keep hearing the negative about healthcare reform here in Alaska. No one is for it at all.
I'm the same way.
I have health insurance, but even if I see a doctor, I pay huge amounts out of pocket.
Either way, I'm screwed.

twondra said...

Thanks so much for visiting my blog.

I'm so very sorry about your uncle. How sad. (((HUGS)))

Tammy
www.twondra.blogspot.com

ICLW

oncemorewithfeeling said...

Healthcare should not be a privilage.

Last year my Husnand and I were in a car accident - My Husband was taken by air ambulance to the Hospital. He had three surgeries, spent one night in ICU, two blood transfusions and spent a total of 72 days in the hospital.

Our bill? $70.00 for his private phone.

I thank god we live in Canada where we didn't have to wonder if we could afford to fix him.

Nobody should have to figure out if they can afford to get better.

K said...

Sorry about your loss!!!
Blessings

ICLW

Kristi said...

I am so sorry about your uncle. This was an eloquent and heart-wrenching post, and I could not agree more with what you said. I have no doubt that those screaming ignorant lunatics in the town hall meetings haven't even read Obama's health care policy. You're absolutely right-healthcare IS a right, and not a privilege.

Lisa RM said...

I'm in tears right now. I hurt for your loss. It makes me want even more to shut those blithering idiots up about "death panels" and "socialism". Health care is a human right.

Michelle said...

I am sorry for you loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lucy said...

well said. have you seen "Sicko"--great movie, but will also disgust you with our sad system and the better systems in England, France, Canada...even Cuba!

Deathstar said...

I am so sorry to to hear about your uncle's tragic death. It's disgusting how someone has to consider how much money they have to pay before their own health. My sister lives in Georgia is close to bankruptcy because of all the medical bills she has to pay. I'm Canadian. I was admitted for an overnight stay in the hospital for treatment of pain after a medical procedure done at another facility. I walked out of there after receiving great care and never had to walk past a cashier. I always known Americans to such a compassionate nation, I can't believe the citizens can't find a way to make the health care reform work.

ICLW

mrsfinn said...

I am so sorry about your uncle.

It's sad and tragic that people can even argue that healthcare reform isn't needed.

I pray that the powers that be in the US will put an end to the fear mongering against socialized health care. I can't even imagine living in a country that would charge me so much for healthcare, even with insurance, that I'd rather die than go to a hospital.

mylifechronicles said...

I am so sorry about your uncle. It is sad that one has to decide on whether they can afford to make the hospital trip that they really need to make. Your family is in my thoughts.

Brooke said...

wow you sure have been through a lot the last few days. I hope you can find some peace and comfort in blogging. I am sorry for your loss and hope your father has a speedy recovery. I have some family memeber that are stubborn when they dont feel well and I know the pain of seeing them fall ill. I will be thinking of you.

ICLW
brooke

MelissaP05 said...

I'm so sorry about your uncle and your dad. Like some of the others have said, even though I have health insurance, no one in town takes my insurance, so I have to pay out of pocket every time. Maybe in a month or two I'll reach my $3000 out of pocket limit and will finally get some coverage. I'm all for reform!

Jen said...

I am so very sorry for your loss. I agree with you completely...Healthcare should be a human right.

Eileen said...

This is beautifully written. You have expressed the thoughts of so many Americans so poignantly. I am so very sorry about your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers at this difficult time.


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