If you've been reading this blog since A was born, you know how the relationship between Thugboy and I has been everything but smooth. Actually, it started before she was born, but I digress.
My Mom called me yesterday to tell me Thugboy doesn't want A coming down here next month. I cried a bit, like I always do. She called me back a few hours later to tell me he had changed his mind and she could come back down again. I hate how he uses her like a fucking yo-yo to dangle in front of us.
My Dad called me today to tell me that my sister was getting tired of Thugboy. She was telling him she didn't want A growing up thinking a man can run a woman like her father does her mother. Maybe she is starting to see the light.
My dad has offered to help her just as much as my uncle has. I think it would be a good thing if she decided to take either one of them up on the offer to go to school. I told my dad I could keep A until things get situated with my sister if she wanted. I told him to have her call me next time she comes over.
I hope and pray my sister wakes up. I'm tired of Thugboy using A as a pawn. As long as A is there, he will continue to use her as an excuse to not get a job. It's time for my sister to do what's best for herself and for A. She'll be three next month, it's not too late for either one of them.