Short answer, No. I mean, Maybe.
I know I have said it before, but I'll say it again, I don't deserve NYEBoy. I know without a doubt this man loves me with all his heart. He gives me everything I need and anything I want. However, I am a complete bitch to him. I feel bad about it, but I don't stop it. I know when I am about to say something to him negatively that his feelings are going to get hurt, but I still say it.
Who cares if he takes a nap? Who cares what or how much he eats or what time? Who cares if he doesn't pick up his laundry? Who cares if he doesn't put the toilet lid down? Who cares if he only watches CNN? Who cares if he would rather eat out than have you cook? Who cares if he doesn't want to walk and would rather have you pick him up every day?
Um, that would be me, I do. I wish I could just bite my tongue more often, but if I do that, then I get pissed of and start resenting him. Wake up. Don't eat that. Don't eat this late. Put the clothes away. Put the toilet seat down. Watch something else. Let me cook. Drive yourself to school today.
I don't know what's wrong with me. Whatever the reason, I've got to get over it before I run this guy off. Well, before he runs me off. Sigh.
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Just take a deep breath... he is doing a LOT for you, and giving you so much. Step back and see how many good things he does for you. He buys you anything you want, heck he did shortly after you started dating.
Take a breath of fresh air, relax, realize what is REALLY important in a relationship. Is putting the toilet seat down one of them? Nah, not really. I gave that one up a long time ago. They have to lift it up to go, we have to put it down to go... we both have to do that equally. Eating late at night, who cares... if he wants to have a late supper, let him. If he'd rather go out to eat than have you cook, take that as a gift to you... not every female loves to cook, and instead, maybe compromise with him and say, maybe 2 days or 3 days out of the week, you would like to cook for him. Even if it's something quick. Laundry is an ongoing battle... figure out a situation where it's easy for him to do it. Whether having 1 basket in the bedroom and when it's full, the laundry gets done, and when it's dried and folded, maybe you put it away. Maybe he puts his load of laundry in the wash, and then you dry it and put it away... compromise. It's hard, I know... trust me.
Just be glad you have someone who loves you as much as he does, and who would do anything for you at the drop of the hat. Be glad you can drive him to school today... he's going to get you guys a future, so you can stay home if you want. He's got a lot going on with him getting his Ph.D ... give him a break a little bit, and don't sweat the small stuff.
Pick your battles... do you know how many girls would die for the man you've got?
A LOT.
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