So, after talking with my girlfriend Mel, she said she wouldn't be ready until the beginning of the new year. I decided to sit down and talk to M about his question and propsal to move with him.
We dicussed the things he needed to work on and he agreed he was willing to make a real effort to change. We will have a date night once a week, probably on one of his nights off. I will still go out, probably once every other weekend. I am giving him until the new year to make an honest effort in changing. If not, come the new year, this hot chic is roll bouncing.
Both of our families think it's the best solution because they hate to see us just end on such a sour note. Most of my friends however, wish I would just stay away from him. *Smile*
The good thing about me moving to the apartment with him is I am now only 10 mins away from Mel, but I am 30 mins away from work. Fuck.
So I will probably be offline until maybe Monday. The phone company said they couldn't switch services until then, and they may consider it sooner. Whatever!
*On a side note:*
I had to take my grandma in to the doctor's office today, so I got my labs rechecked. My blood count is back to normal thanks to all the pills and the two shots in the ass. Yey. I still feel awful but I will try to go back to work tomorrow.
I am also supose to start moving tomorrow, but I have plans to go out Friday night with Mel. Blech. I hope I get to feeling better soon, and I don't over do it.
I think this is the best decision right now, I just hope he doesn't make me regret it.