Have you ever fought so hard for something you've decided to give up? When do you say keep fighting and when do you say it's time?
I'm affraid I will have wasted my time if I give up, but even more affraid I will waste more time on something so hopeless if I don't stop now.
What do you do when your heart and brain like to fuck with each other?
Maybe God isn't giving us kids, together, because we weren't meant to be together?
Happy Birthday M, I hope you're happy with the way you acted tonight.
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Sweetie, I know that IF has fucked with more than its fair share of couples. Some make it out the other side, some don't. It sounds like you're really struggling right now. Are you talking to anyone about it? Together, if M will go, or by yourself if he won't?
xox
I agree with nico...
Have you and M said down to have a true heart to heart? Maybe you both have alot to get out right now....
I don't know you (or your relationship, as I'm sure what you post is only part of the story) but I will say that I don't believe that god doles out babies to couples based on worthiness or stability or anything like that.
I do think there are relationships that seem like they should be, but just aren't right. I also think that IF is a stressor that can break even the most solid of partnerships. I agree with the above posters about talking to someone if you can.
I'm sorry you're struggling right now, and I hope you find the answer that's right for you.
I am sorry that you and M are going through a rough patch right now. Please know that I am thinking of you.
Infertility is hard on both the woman and the man. It's terrible on marriage.
Whatever you do -- don't make decisions when you're mad. And if you want to make a decision, take a break first. Deciding to give up infertility treatment was absolutely the most difficult decision I ever made in my life, and after over a year I still had not come to peace with it.
Therapy is invaluable.
Good luck. I hope this bad moment passes.
It sucks when couples go through hard times while struggling with IF as if there is not already enough on the plate. good luck in what you decide to do.
I am so soory you are dealing with this too. Do what is right for your heart.
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