After reading a few blogs over the weekend and talking with my Mom this evening I have a question. Why is it that the outside world looking in looks at us an automatically gives us the title 'obsessive'? I tend to think at times I am obsessive but not a stalker-obsessive, which is the type obsession people mean.
My Mom told me today for the umptenth time that people are infertile because "They try too hard", "Want kids in their life more than God", etc etc. She asked if infertiles are obsessed over kids even more after they finally get one. What the fuck? I think we are harder on ourself and want 150% what's best for our child but I wouldn't call it obsessed. I would like to say that we have been down one long-ass-bumpy-as-fuck-curvy-no-that-way-turn-around road, so we apperciate things differently.
I really need to learn that my Mom will never get it. Will I ever get that?
Hugs go out to Meri-Ann.